The majority of us are ‘not’ living, however, we’re dying daily. This is correct in Physical and Mental senses. In Physical sense, we die daily because, daily 1000′s of cells die.
Aside from this physical aspect, Another effect of ageing is Mental. Probably the most primary within this aspect is ‘Fear of Dying’… In the following paragraphs, we shall begin to see the causes of such fears with tips to conquer such fears.
II. Exactly why is Guy Scared of Dying?
The next are the fears connected with Dying which guy faces, due to Accessories, Ego and envy.
1. Physical pains mounted on dying.
2. Anxiety about getting oldness together with problems connected.by using it which lead one finally to dying.
3. Attachment to close and dear, especially to children, grandchildren etc.
4. Attachment towards the assets gained.
5. Attachment towards the worldly pleasures.
6. Fear concerning the next world/next birth (if any) etc.
7. Certain Unknown fears about dying by reading through books and hearing mystic lectures.
Now we shall consider the factor the way the above three aspects cause fear and some relief on their behalf..
III. Attachment Causes Grief,,Detachment Causes Relief:
When attachment ‘s the reason for fear, its opposite Detachment will remove fear. You can easily say ‘detach her’, but tough to follow. Attachment comes instantly being an component of mind and brain throughout birth. But detachment will achieve after hard practice after use of body, mind and soul. I give here below certain tips to practice total detachment from worldly pleasures, estimating from lives of great Saints and spiritual leaders.
There is a famous saint “Ramana Maharishi’ residing in twentieth century in Tiruvannamalai. As he was operated for cancer he declined to become given with anaesthetic drugs. He just extended his hands permitting so that it is operated turning the mind inside a different direction to ensure that his prayer wasn’t to become disturbed. When the operation was over, he expressed surprise asking ” Could it be over?”
We do not need to be such great Saints. But at our level, we ought to know how to tolerate discomfort. The majority of us are scared with an regular injection because it causes discomfort. We ought to get the habit enduring discomfort however strong it might be. There have been several freedom martial artists who strongly faced the gallows which triggered him dying.
Fear over senior years is a vital fact of existence. Condemnation and non-acceptance of elders through the society in particular may be the major cause of worry. A feeling of sacrifice can help overcome this issue. It’s possible to train poor children in nearby slums. Join some senior clubs to increase social services. After we get the practice of ‘living for other people’, worries concerning the self instantly will vanish.
Empathy may be the feeling most required to comprehend the difficulties of others. It’s the energy to initiate another’s personality to know their sufferings and helping these to solve it. After we develop empathy we’ll solve others’ sorrows and ours will instantly vanish.
V. ‘Love thy neighbour as thyself’. After we learn how to treat everyone around us with kindness, the petty accessories will vanish. Selflessness may be the high quality which provides this strength. Likewise, attachment to worldly pleasures and assets won’t ever allow us to after our dying. There is an excellent Saint in India, who sang ” A damaged needle without its won’t accompany you after dying”
Mire. Superstitious values:
Additionally towards the fear connected with ego etc, sometimes the worry originates from outdoors. Various punitive measures after dying for that sins committed throughout existence are preached in a number of religions. That doesn’t prevent people from doing sins. They commit all sins and also at senior years leisurely they repent on their behalf waiting for punishment after dying. In Hindu religion, the most popular belief would be that the God of Dying, Yama comes before one on his vehicle zoysia to consider his existence using his noose and try to crictally ill patients imagine this type of zoysia. The most popular belief is the fact that sinners is going to be fried in boiling oil, tossed into fire etc. These kind of superstitions boost the anxiety about dying.
You ought to clearly realize that dying is inevitable. Birth and dying would be the two sides of the identical gold coin. Time of dying can’t be determined. It’ll come anytime. Another who’d come alive with flesh and bloodstream this moment could be dead within the next moment for a number of reasons, naturally or else.
The only real reality would be that the existence which leaves your body on dying won’t ever return, Our mind ought to be always conscious that dying may knock the doorway whenever.
Hence, the next three ‘Mantras’ (Magical words) will take away the anxiety about dying from your minds.
1. Detachment:, which removes attachment.
2. Empathy: which induces empathy and removes Ego and
3. Love: which removes envy and the most supreme feeling.
Once these 3 Mantras were practiced, the brain is going to be like ripe fruits and will also be detached in the tree of existence without discomfort. There won’t be any anxiety about dying.
Let’s understand that Love Is God!
Dr Bhimarao Sathyanarayanan (66) is really a going to Professor of Physics dealing with Sri Sankara Arts and Science College, Kanchipuram. He’s written several books on Philosophy also. He’s the founding father of Holistic Philosophy Society which studies the connection between Physics and Philosophy. He’s editor from the annual magazine Philosophy of Science. These activities were indexed by the Worldwide Directory of Philosophy and Philosophers, released by Bowling Eco-friendly Condition College U.S.A.